All The Unemployed Are Lazy Slobs...Except Me.

by: DTOzone

Tue Jul 27, 2010 at 00:42:00 AM EDT


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I've been told I make pretty convincing arguments for stuff. I got most of my PUMA friends to vote for Obama, even if some of them went the teabagging route since.

I was captain of the debate team and wrote the speech that won my ex-girlfriend Student Council President in Senior year of High School.

So I take it upon myself to real hammer home the liberal/progressive messaging. I've found it tough as you've no doubt heard. Today, I tried taking on unemployment...it ended in a disaster. I thought invoking myself would work. My friends like me. They know I'm not a lazy slob. They know how hard it was for me to find a job after I lost mine at ABC. They know my experience. I would be the perfect reason why unemployment benefits should be extended.  

DTOzone :: All The Unemployed Are Lazy Slobs...Except Me.
I spent the better part of last year on unemployment, from March through November. I sometimes came to near nervous breakdowns over my inability to find a job. I felt like a failure and even contemplated suicide. It was the most demeaning, embarassing experience of my life.

Today, I posted on my Facebook status "Has anyone who believes receiving unemployment makes a person not want to look for a job, actually been on unemployment themselves?" I thought I had the argument. If you haven't been there, like I had, you couldn't say what a person feels in that situation.

The response I got was 10 "Yes, I've been on unemployment and I think that" because, you know, they weren't lazy, but everyone else still is (I my mind I think secretly these friends of mine were lazy slobs on unemployment, won't admit it, but say others are like that) and a few "I know someone on unemployment who won't find a job until they run out" to "Maybe you weren't like that, but most are"

The fact is there are a lot of sick twisted selfish careless people in this country, and I mean a lot. They think the unemployed are lazy and should just go get a job. I got it too, my conservative "friends" were willing to insult me if it meant defending their point of view.

I've thrown in the towel on climate change, as it's probably too late anyway.

They believe what they want to believe and nothing you, I, the President or the Democratic Party says will change that.

I've given up.  

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don't give up. (2.00 / 6)
i'm an archaeologist.  i generally have a much deeper viewshed than lots of folks when it comes to humans and how they choose to live.  civilizations fail.  all of them do.  ours will too sooner or later -- thats a given -- and it will be because we do some stupid shit (or some combination of stupid shits).  FTR, my money is on cascading ecological disasters that cause wide-spread famine and pandemic disease, but that's neither here nor there.  still, I'm not giving up.

for me, it's not about the goal or the ideal, it's about getting there.  the struggle.  we'll never fix everything.  something (or heaps of things) will always suck.  without poverty, corruption, injustice, bigotry, stupidity, and inequality good people like us would have absolutely nothing to do.

It's a terrible thing to look over your shoulder when you are trying to lead, and find no one there. -Franklin Roosevelt


I find this quote awesome on so many levels. (2.00 / 4)
without poverty, corruption, injustice, bigotry, stupidity, and inequality good people like us would have absolutely nothing to do.

Yup. You guessed it!

Check out my sig...

Without poverty, corruption, injustice, bigotry, stupidity, and inequality good people like us would have absolutely nothing to do. - fogiv


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i made a spiffy sig! (2.00 / 5)
that's the big leagues, baby.

It's a terrible thing to look over your shoulder when you are trying to lead, and find no one there. -Franklin Roosevelt

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I'll just second it all. (2.00 / 5)
DTO, you hang with the wrong crowd or you deliver your message in the wrong way or both.

I'm the genetically-predisposed Moderator.  I learned early on that sitting quietly and thinking about other things made me "a good listener".  Later I figured out that it wasn't the way I absently nodded my head, but that I wasn't filling the air with my opinions but rather commenting on the other person's diatribe.

These days I find myself doing that sort of thing all the time.  Friends, work - there is always someone worked-up about  something and I have to figure out what it is and how they got to that state and try to move them to a better state.  It isn't a matter of showing anyone why they are wrong, only matching where they are to where it seems they would be better off and suggesting some steps in that direction.  Often it is just a matter of putting their situation into context.

I mentioned in another thread that there are two types of people.  Actually, that was three from my favorite novel Cryptonomicon (sic):

1.  People who don't use words much but use their hands and actions instead.

2.  People who use words as tools to accomplish an end.

3.  People who use words to discover things.

Most people when they are speaking are being the second kind.  It is worthwhile trying to be the third as often as possible.

I do not declare much.  

The answer to whether unemployment insurance has demotivational downsides is an interesting one with several layers at least.  I cannot declare a definitive position on that one.  The interesting information is hidden in the details below emotional declarations - "yes" is true, but is that 0.01% or 55%?  (then) Why is it demotivational for each demographic? (then) What kinds of things might improve that? (then) Why might the best-sounding of those not work?

I think I know a reasonably large amount about many of the technical aspects of climate.  I find it quite hard to accept the rosiest denier's arguments, but neither do I think the gloomiest is correct either.  The set of possible realities includes both of them, though, and the variables of Nature and our ability to morph various technologies over time are enormous unknowns.

It is perhaps more effort to caveat your own opinions much of the time, but in my experience it is easier than fighting to defend a combative position.  It is certainly dramatically more likely to have a positive outcome of some sort.  In any case, it is vanishingly unlikely that any of us knows what the right thing to do about a complicated issues is, anyway, so it's a fool's errand to act like we do.

"Conway, whom experience had taught that rudeness was by no means a guarantee of good faith, was even less inclined to regard a well-turned phrase as a proof of insincerity."  James Hilton, Lost Horizon


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Not to Mention... (2.00 / 1)
4.  People who use words to obfuscate, enervate, proselytise and create opportunities for picking your pockets.  Consider:


Nobody ever went broke underestimating the intelligence of the American public.

H L Mencken



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Those are in the second group. (0.00 / 0)
Trying to achieve a predetermined result.  

"Conway, whom experience had taught that rudeness was by no means a guarantee of good faith, was even less inclined to regard a well-turned phrase as a proof of insincerity."  James Hilton, Lost Horizon

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